Little Notes~~~Lasting Memories

Monday, May 20, 2013 by  

I love you note from my Daddy, daddy, father's love, memories   Daddy & Baby Bianca, little duckie (1)                                                 Daddy left me this note decades ago.

I Love You note from Phillip, Daddy's note for our daughter, memoriesDaddy & Daughter, baby, giggles, smiles, pure joy  Phillip left this surprise note for our little one yesterday before he headed away for a business trip.

Small gestures, time well spent together, little notes…they all go a long way.

Daddy & Baby Bianca, strong Dad, wonderful father   Daddy & Bianca, I miss Daddy

                                      These notes mean something when we find them.                                               They mean a whole lot more when we lose those we love so dearly.

Daddy & Baby Bianca, Daddy lifting daughter Daddy, I miss you!!!!  Daddy & Bianca, missing Daddy 

                                  I see so much of my father’s tenderness & care in my husband.                            I don’t take any of these moments for granted.

Daddy & Daughter, giggles, kisses, hugs (3)     Daddy & Daughter  giggles  kisses  hugs (6)  Daddy & Daughter  giggles  kisses  hugs (2)    Daddy & Daughter, giggles, kisses, hugs (1)    Daddy & Daughter  giggles  kisses  hugs (7)     Daddy & Daughter  giggles  kisses  hugs (4)

The Bright SpotTM bright spot flower – Write your kids a little note today. It may be something they cherish for the next 40 years.

Daddy & Little Bianca, swingset, summer memories


Bianca

Which One Are You?

Tuesday, October 2, 2012 by  

Bianca Tyler & Phillip, husband and wife, understanding, loving, kindness, thoughtfulness, embrace, snuggle, cuddle, sweet, sensual, loving couple, loving husband and wife, sexy, sexy cuddle, Let's Talk, Let's Talk radio show, radio, radio show

Janet Jackson’s catchy tune “What have you done for me lately?” and John F. Kennedy’s famous quote from his inaugural address, “…ask not what your country can do for you — ask what can you do for your country,” can symbolize your view of a relationship. Where do you fall in your marriage?

For us, we try to do whatever we can to please one another. If I grab a bottle of water for the car or our room for the night, I grab one for Phillip, too. It’s not even a thought, it’s just automatic. And it goes for anything. If he makes a cup of tea, he always makes two. If I can make my husband’s life more comfortable with simple, loving gestures, I do. And vice versa.

Sometimes I’ll warm a towel or his robe in the dryer for him shortly before he steps out of the shower, or I’ll chill a wine glass in the fridge before he comes home from work. These aren’t hard things to do, they don’t take effort, and are so appreciated. My husband sometimes leaves little notes in the big soup pot that say, “I love you,” and I leave naughty notes in his briefcase. 

I learned very early on in our marriage that Phillip was a giver and a pleaser, and it made me want to do things for him in return. And so it went back and forth, back and forth. Now that’s a relationship cycle one would want to keep going!

Years back when I was about 20, there was a significant holiday – I can’t remember which one at this point – but I bought Grandparents, loving couple, married 61 years, diamond anniversary, diamond celebration, incredible role models, loving grandparents, my dream couple, sweet embrace, sweet to each other, life long journeytwo cards and gave one to my grandmother and one to my grandfather. My grandmother smiled at me tenderly as she gave her card back. She put her arm around me and said, “Your grandfather and I are one; we share everything. We love your thoughtfulness, but we only need one card.” Then she kissed me on the forehead and that was that.

Married 61 years, they were loving and kind to each other every day. They held hands when they walked, when they sat on the couch, whenever they could. The memories are beautifully indelible. Their diamond celebration story: http://theletstalkmom.com/romance-and-spice/the-diamond-celebration/

So as I went into my marriage, I thought to myself I could think, “What have you done for me lately?” …or I could be a thoughtful spouse and say to myself, “What can I do for my husband?”

I know there are some people that might think I’m a wimp. Oh, contraire! When you are great to your significant other and your significant other is great to you, you are united, you are strong, you feel loved, and you are on the 61-year path.

The Bright Spotâ„¢ bright spot flower – When parents are strong together, the whole family benefits and thrives.

 


Bianca