Tea Cups

Thursday, November 11, 2010 by  

Our sweet, adorable “Uncle” George passed away at the age of 95. 

Elderly man in suit

He was the consummate gentleman.

Broadway walk in winter 1930s

1930s gentleman in suit

Always held the door open, always in a suit, tie and outdoor hat to go to dinner – no complaints or excuses even as he wearied in his 90s.

90 year old and 14 year old men

He was a devout religious man, a boy scout, an engineer, a loving husband, an incredible man.

1930s 2 boy scouts

My husband’s father and my father had both passed away and George became the

Patriarch of our family. 

Child gives photo gift to elderly man

Patriarch and family montage

1940s bride

His beloved wife, Mildred, had passed away about 16 years ago and we met George the following year ~ he lived next door to my sister on the beach – this is her lovely house at sunset – simply glorious.

Beach house at sunset

Mildred and George had no children; we “adopted” George into our family and for 15 years we shared every holiday, every birthday and every regular day in between as family.

Elderly man opening Christmas package

Thanksgiving couch picture 2008

Family on couch at Thanksgiving 2007

80 year old holding baby

Elderly and teen playing video games

He even had a cell phone on our family plan. 

Family photo at Christmas

For George’s 90th birthday, we had more than 80 people at our home to celebrate. We set up huge foam poster boards with photos from his youth – he kept those boards all around his home for years.

Teen with dog 1930s

Whenever we visited George at his home, he would make tea. It was our very own special tradition – he always had delicious goodies and a fine story to tell.

Elderly man holding baby

But the time came when George wasn’t feeling well. He asked us what we would like from him to remember him by.

Little boy snuggling elderly man

He knew very clearly we never wanted anything but his love, strength, model of life for our children and model of love and communication for our marriage. But he asked more persistently as he was dissolving his material things so I said we would be honored to have his tea cups.

We would enjoy them throughout our lifetime and think of him.

Tea cups and fairies

Little Petal’s Fairy Princess Tea Party for her 4th birthday was inspired by George ~ for he gave us these gorgeous porcelain tea cups that he and Mildred had collected from all around the world.

Tea cups and fairies

We honored his gracious gift by telling that story to everyone at the tea party

and we all clapped in his honor.

Below is Little Petal turning 4 and her adorable friend – all the little princess were

so naturally gentle with the porcelain. So sweet and beautiful to see.

Tea cups and fairies

Tea cups and fairies

Tea cups and fairies

4yearold drinking from tea cup

3 year old drinking from tea cup

We miss our Uncle George very much but we know he longed to be with his dear wife so much.

Phillip and our son were pallbearers, carrying George to his final destination beside his beloved. Both said doing so was very healing for them.

George had brought flowers to Mildred’s resting site every single Saturday for 16 years. He is a model for all of us.

Young woman 1930s portrait

The Bright Spot bright spot flower – If we all bring one lonely person into our lives, we can change this world one snuggle at a time.

Radio couple

Please go to the Radio Show flower in the navigation bar above and listen to the show we broadcasted Live on November 4, 2010 – it’s now archived on this site ~ we talked about this wonderful way to integrate our Senior Citizens into our families, our lives (and the conversation after the elderly and children about World Vision reduced me to tears.)

Our Senior Citizens are the walking treasures of history, story-telling and love from a time gone by. Grab hold before their story is gone. Everyone in the family benefits and your experience will last for a lifetime!


Harmony and Magic

Wednesday, November 3, 2010 by  

Do you remember the love the young boy and the 7,000 pound Orca in “Free Willy” had for one another. I love to see such a connection between people and animals.

I have witnessed the most remarkable relationship between our 5-year-old daughter and a young Beluga whale ~ the two just make my heart swell.

5 year old girl and baby beluga whale

 5 year old girl and beluga whale

Sometimes there’s a crowd, sometimes we’re just there on our own,

but the two of them take no notice of anyone but each other.

He will look directly and intently at her, swim to her and play

with only her no matter how many people are around.

Beluga up close

He brings her his toys – balls and floaties,

Beluga with red ball

Beluga with floatie toys

and she will stay and play for ages, cooing and singing and encouraging the activities…

Little girl and beluga playing with orange ball

Little girl and beluga playing

even in the rain!

Little girl and beluga in the rain

They have a unique and beautiful friendship.

Dad, girl and beluga

The young beluga will swim up to her and sing his whale song…

Beluga whale swims up to little girl

and await her return.

Beluga whale up close

And we will make the long journey back and forth because this connection, this love, this tie to nature is an incredible gift.

Our little one has begged to swim with her beloved Beluga. The rule is that children must be 6 years of age. Guess where we’re going in a few months! 🙂

The Bright Spot bright spot flower – may we all be so blessed to be that in tune with the world around us.

Little girl and 2 whales